Build Self Esteem
Many people go through life with low self esteem. This is a sad, but true, fact that is made sadder by the fact that it doesn’t have to be that way. Every person on the planet is a special, unique person and deserves all good that comes along. Everyone deserves to feel good about themselves. Many of the littlest things in life can do so much to boost your self esteem.
You can:
- Smile at the people who come across your path today.
- Find something funny to laugh about.
- Turn negative thoughts into positive ones and see what happens.
- See what you can learn from what happens in your life.
- List all your positive attributes.
- Ask your close friends and family what they love about you – and let it in.
- Do something for someone that they don’t expect and let them express gratitude.
- Do something wonderful and kind for someone that they know nothing about.
- Compliment the grocery checkout person.
- Make a “To Do” list and check off each thing as you accomplish it.
- Do something that scares you a little.
- Learn something new.
- Forgive someone.
These things are so simple to do that you will be amazed at what happens when, for example, you do something nice for someone for no reason, do something that scares you a little, learn something new.and you feel better about yourself. There are endless possibilities to love others and yourself. And remember to accept what you can’t change. Give it a shot for a day or two and see how much better you feel about yourself.
August 22, 2010 | Tags: build self esteem, low self esteem | trackback
Category: life tools




Coaching in Emotional Intelligence is a more comprehensive approach to enhancing self esteem. This is a good start.
great stuff Maia. I can tell you that I always try and smile at strangers, and it really makes me feel good when they give me that surprised smile back!