Comments on: Anxiety and Being Committed http://AllAboutLifeCoaching.com/anxiety-bladderinfection Everything You Evera personal development plan with life coaching and journaling and your life will transform so that the past will take its proper place - in the past. Sat, 04 Sep 2010 01:33:46 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Martian0511 http://AllAboutLifeCoaching.com/anxiety-bladderinfection/comment-page-1#comment-308 Martian0511 Tue, 17 Nov 2009 09:04:52 +0000 http://AllAboutLifeCoaching.com/?p=1622#comment-308 This secret according to Maia is to "follow your own path." That's a tricky one to accomplish inside a committed relationship. I guess the first thing is to know what your "path" is before you can follow it. How do you figure that one out. Some people are lucky enough to figure this out as a child. For me it's about trying a bunch of different things that seem like fun and see how I feel afterward. For example, I used to drink my share of alcohol and I enjoyed it. Well, that was fun while I was doing it. The problem is that afterward I didn't feel so good physically or emotionally. It took me awhile to figure it out because I was a slow learner but I finally decided that this was not my path. I have similar stories using sex and some other things. So, once you narrow down what you think your path is or what you need to do to find out who you are then you have to figure out how to accomplish this (whatever) thing inside a relationship. Is it ok with your partner. It's obviously way more clever to figure this out before you sign up for a committed relationship. If not, you will have to play the cards you are dealt. Sorry for being obtuse; some things have no easy answers. This secret according to Maia is to “follow your own path.” That’s a tricky one to accomplish inside a committed relationship. I guess the first thing is to know what your “path” is before you can follow it. How do you figure that one out. Some people are lucky enough to figure this out as a child. For me it’s about trying a bunch of different things that seem like fun and see how I feel afterward. For example, I used to drink my share of alcohol and I enjoyed it. Well, that was fun while I was doing it. The problem is that afterward I didn’t feel so good physically or emotionally. It took me awhile to figure it out because I was a slow learner but I finally decided that this was not my path. I have similar stories using sex and some other things.

So, once you narrow down what you think your path is or what you need to do to find out who you are then you have to figure out how to accomplish this (whatever) thing inside a relationship. Is it ok with your partner.

It’s obviously way more clever to figure this out before you sign up for a committed relationship. If not, you will have to play the cards you are dealt.
Sorry for being obtuse; some things have no easy answers.

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