Fears in Control?

Allowing fears to stop you from accomplishing what you want in life might be one of the most significant barriers to personal growth.

• Say you want to stop spending your life working for others, doing a job that is largely uncreative and unsatisfying to your soul. But you know how much money is coming in every month.

• What if you don’t know what you do want to do or you know but have never been in your own business and don’t know how to start or all your old messages of incompetence arise? Hire a coach.

The right life coach will help you sort out your talents and skills and brainstorm with you on possibilities.

The right life coach is in their own business so they certainly can teach and support you to do the same.

The life coach will help you deal with your negative self talk.

Many people have various different fears and no matter what they are about, they can be so strong that they are completely debilitating. Many life coaches will help you with tools and techniques to overcome your fear so you can follow a clear path towards your future.

A coach will give you tools and techniques to help you over come your barriers to personal growth, of course, but the most important thing that they can give you is the confidence in yourself to know that whatever your fear is, you can handle it. Sooner or later, as you progress with your coach you will suddenly feel so strongly that you can face that fear and do whatever it is you are so scared of,  you will just jump right in and do it.

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Life sure does seem to be happening faster and faster. Can a life coach help with any of this?

Maybe it’s my age but I hear lots of younger people voice the same observation. For whatever reason, no matter how fast-paced your life seems to be, you may still feel like you are spinning your wheels and getting nothing done and getting nowhere.

Whether you procrastinate and put off the important things you need to do or if you constantly seem to come up against a brick wall at every turn, sometimes it takes someone else to help you look at your life situation with an objective eye and see what some of the underlying issues may be. Sometimes it’s self doubt and low self esteem. Sometimes it’s just a shortage of needed skills. Maybe it’s a combination of both.

Fear and self doubt may blind you to what is really happening. Feelings and emotions may be in the way and you may never grow past these issues and become prosperous and self-respecting. If you are working hard and still feel like you are getting nowhere, a life coach could be the key to helping you see what the issues are that are standing in your way and moving forward past them to a whole new future. Make a serious commitment now and deal with the situation before it is too late and you have missed many incredible opportunities. Go pick up the phone.

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Be sure that the life coach that you choose to work with is someone that you are comfortable with and that you feel you can communicate well with. You need to be able to talk about anything and everything with your coach.

In addition, you must feel that your coach does their job well. Interview at least three coaches. Ask for client testimonials. Find out how many coaching hours they have actually been involved with and try to get an idea of what type of techniques they use to assist you in finding and reaching your goals. Coaches work in many ways – in person, by phone or even by email now.

Life coaching can help you in so many ways. By getting a life coach and making a strong effort to work, be totally honest with and cooperate with the coach as much as possible, you can make a huge difference in your life and your success and happiness. Your life coach can work with you on any issue that you have and help to change the way that it is affecting your life. You can work on self esteem issues or procrastination issues -or relationship issues – whatever it may be that causes you to feel like something is not right in your life.

If you are looking for better personal relationships, business relationships or a better idea of what you want in life and how to go about getting it, a life coach could be your answer. For support in achieving goals, a life coach is perfect.

As you grow with the coaching, a good coach will help you revise what you want and lead you in the directions that you would like to go whether it is with your relationships with your kids or if it is figuring out how to get that big promotion at work. The confidence that you will get from working with your coach will spill over into all areas of your life.

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What is high self-esteem? Is it the feeling of personal competence or the feeling of personal worth? Or is it both? I say both.

Ask yourself the following questions to determine the areas where you may need to examine your level of self-esteem:

• – Am I able to earn my living doing what I enjoy?

• – Do I know how to give and receive love?

• – Do I have wonderful friends?

• – Do I take good care of myself physically?

• – Do I earn an income that is appropriate for me?

Even if answer positively for four out of the five of your answers, one area of your life that isn’t working the way you’d like it to is enough to throw your life out of balance. Be honest with yourself. Do something for yourself. Think about hiring a life coach and focus in particular on the area you need a boost on.

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STOP WATCHING THE NEWS! Every news media one reads or sees these days is predicting economic horrors or reporting on the current ones.  This cannot help you to attract abundance into your life.  Since I’ve been alive the past 67 years, I have lived though many different economies. What I’ve noticed is that just like people – they change and the change is constant.

My husband is a pretty smart guy and has a talent and gift for seeing the big picture. He says, after trying to scope it all out, that the economy is all in our minds. And I say, “We have control over those.” Am I not noticing the facts? It is group consciousness that created the world economy such as it is and it is group consciousness that will create something different – one mind at a time.

Remember in What the Bleep Do We Know? how we saw how we are biochemically addicted or our emotional states? (If you haven’t seen it, I highly recommend it.) The media knows this and is selling us the fear that is addictive. Because it is addictive it keeps us coming back for more and more and more. Ultimately, as we buy into the fear that they are selling and we are addicted to, our negative vibrations then create what we have – a big, negative mess. How can we change it? Taking responsibility for our own minds. To attract abundance we must filter what goes into our mind. The Law of Attraction works. It works in our individual lives and it works in our group conscious mind even bigger. The more we focus, the more we will get.

So my question to you is, WHERE IS YOUR MIND FOCUSED TODAY?

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Before you spend your hard earned money on life coaching, make sure that you think very carefully about it. Coaching is an investment. It can be expensive and if you are going to spend your money on it, be ready to make the investment of your time and energy into it. A life coach can only do their part to help you find your own answers and help you come up with the actions necessary to reach your goals.

• You have to answer the questions.
• You have to work on goal  setting.

A coach can only give the tools to work with; you have to do the work on your own and if you are not going to follow through and do it, then coaching is a waste of your time and money. Don’t fool yourself. You will only end up feeling badly about yourself and probably feel badly about life coaching as a profession. You will think, “It didn’t work.” I used to be in 12-Step programs where they often said, “It works if you work it”. The same is true for coaching.

And, if you are going to make the investment, it is worth your time to research coaches. Find a life coach that you are comfortable with and that you will open up and be honest with. A coach can’t help you if you aren’t honest with them about what your goals are and what you are hoping to accomplish – and most importantly who you really are. And if you are unsure of that, the right life coach can help you uncover your Real Self. Life coaching is a wonderful way to continue your life journey – with a partner.

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Some people feel that attitude this is why life coaching is growing by leaps and bounds.

It may be that the growth of life coaching is happening, in part, because people focus on this feeling of fierce competition. The need to feel more secure in life but certainly another reason for the growth in the industry is that life coaching is right up there with really good therapy to produce results (without dredging up why and how there is a problem). Life coaching mostly skips the past part and centers on changing the situation in the now.

The life coaching industry is no different than the mental health industry and there are many coaches to choose from as there are many therapists and counselors to choose from.

If you hire a coach and this service in important in your life and an expensive investment, be sure to  find a life coach that you feel a strong connection with and who has the skills to help you get where you want to go or help you clarify where you do want to go.

For many, it is best to interview a few before you decide on one to make sure you feel comfortable with them. Although if your intuition says “yes” at the first one, you can probably trust it.

You might even get client testimonials from a perspective coach and see how others felt about the services they received.

Because all consciousness grows and is growing now at a speed none of us can really understand, it really isn’t a surprise that a profession that generally focuses on increasing the speed of personal and spiritual growth would be zooming right along also.

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