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The Mystery of Attraction Marketing

allaboutlifecoaching — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 16:00:55 +0000

Law of Attraction – How Does It Work in Marketing?

I’ve spent many years doing what I recognize allows positive change to happen. I work on healing the past, changing my beliefs and performing inspired action (inspired because now my inner energy field is free to attract what I want – Law of Attraction in action). And boy! Am I attracting!

In the last month I’ve gotten 3 new clients and attracted a really big, wonderful business opportunity that makes use of my gifts and gets me really excited.

For years I have worked to clear my blocks that keep me from abundance. I have also been coaching my clients to do the same.

Can it be so easy? Why doesn’t it always work? My experience is that most people are afraid to deal with the emotional part and so those hurts from the past must keep them bound to continue to create the same thing over and over.

It’s not a very black and white, this-is-exactly-how-you-do-it kind of thing. But I do know it takes healing, changing beliefs and then comes the inspired action. Oh, what is my inspired action? Well, because I know that my marketing efforts work best when people get to know me, I am creating ways for that to happen. I have built a place where people of all walks of life can come to feel secure and grow. This is just one of the ways that I have allowed the law of attraction to work for me and help those around me.

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Law of Attraction as a Life Coach

allaboutlifecoaching — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 16:00:36 +0000

Law of Attraction

as a Life Coach

I was looking through some older posts and felt this one would serve any readers as well as it did a year ago. (A year ago!)

From my perspective as a life coach, it is important for me to be on a path of growth and to report in on my path of growth. The intimate nature of the coaching relationship and the “if Maia can do it, I can do it too” attitude I support my clients and readers with, I feel requires me to do no less. So here’s the latest report on my path of growth:

With a financial dive in 2001 in our background and from the perspective of a couple in their 60′s and 70′s as another reality, my husband and I have been reluctant to purchase a car. As a matter of fact, I think there’s been a little of hoping “the other shoe doesn’t drop” – particularly when there’s been something wrong with our 2000 Ford Focus. “What if we had to buy a car? What would we have to cut back on to make a payment? What if our credit isn’t good enough?” have been questions floating around in our heads.
Tuesday was a very big day – for us all. This is how my Tuesday started out: I decided that a trip to a local store would work before my client call at 8 a.m. so off in the Ford Focus I went. I was driving south on Lincoln Blvd. coming to a stop behind a truck when the next thing I knew was – I hit the truck and simultaneously was smacked in the chest with the airbag. The airbag on the (empty) passenger side hit the windshield with such force that it smashed it. Other than surprise, the only other effect to me were the very minor injuries I sustained - two teeny scabs on knuckles, a mildly sore breastbone and a rapidly fading scrape from the seat belt on my neck.
By Saturday we had a 2007 Ford Taurus in perfect condition, a totaled 2000 Ford Focus, an additional source of income and an offer of payout by the insurance company tomorrow.

I learned:

Not only is Law of Attraction operating at all times but sometimes the Universe provides the last little extra bit to make my dreams come true with tiniest little help given via a slight Universe-type kick in the butt.
That I (and, I assume, you) need to experience the not getting what I want in order to give me an opportunity to work though my stuff and create the vibration I do want; i.e. feel that little tightness of anxiety over “Maybe we’ll need a new car” followed by positive self-talk, “Oh, no. You’re not going to take me down that fear path” followed by more positive self-talk, “You’ve never had lack and it’s not about to start now” followed by peace and serenity and acceptance or something like that.
The reason the Law of Attraction is also sometimes called The Law of Allowing, is that it really is a defenses all down, allowing it (plug in ‘whatever you want’ for “it’) to happen. It’s not putting up all that negative noise – thoughts, judgments, not deservings.

Of course, I don’t really know if that’s how it works, but it sure seems to be working like that in my life. How about you?

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Law of Attraction – What’s Missing?

allaboutlifecoaching — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 16:00:53 +0000

Law of Attraction – More

Nobody can deny The Secret was a big success. Why do people still seem to have trouble making the Law of Attraction work for them? Most people are still missing one little factor in making it work for them: you attract what you focus on. So, if you are focusing on what you are lacking, you are drawing to you more of what you lack. It is very simple. Knock off the self pity after 5 minutes. A very wise woman once told me I was allowed 15 minutes of complaining and feeling sorry for myself a day .

Forget about everything that you don’t have and be grateful for all that you do have. Stop repeating to yourself over and over what you can’t afford and what you are going without. You are just proving to yourself that the Law of Attraction really does work.

Negative thinking is a habit, a bad habit and one that you need to break to make the Law of Attraction work for you. Like any other bad habit, with a strong commitment and determination you can break the habit. Break the negative habit by becoming very aware of your thoughts. If you pay attention to your thoughts for a few days, you will begin to pick up every time a negative thought comes into your mind. When you become good at recognizing these thoughts, then it is time to start to change them. Also, pay attention to your feelings. They are a sure indicator of what you are thinking.

When you find yourself thinking something negative, stop and change the thought to the opposite of whatever it is. Concentrate on this positive thought for a moment and experience how it makes you feel. Eventually, this will become a new habit for you and soon you will automatically begin thinking more positives and less negatives.

But here’s the kicker. Our thoughts create our feelings. And we are generally actually addicted to our feelings. So our work is really cut out for us. But since life is a journey and a school, what’s the hurry? We’ll likely just come back and choose to do it all over again anyway.

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Attract Abundance. In This Economy?!

allaboutlifecoaching — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 16:00:58 +0000

How Can I Attract Abundance?

STOP WATCHING THE NEWS! Every news media one reads or sees these days is predicting economic horrors or reporting on the current ones. This cannot help you to attract abundance into your life. Since I’ve been alive the past 67 years, I have lived though many different economies. What I’ve noticed is that just like people – they change and the change is constant.

My husband is a pretty smart guy and has a talent and gift for seeing the big picture. He says, after trying to scope it all out, that the economy is all in our minds. And I say, “We have control over those.” Am I not noticing the facts? It is group consciousness that created the world economy such as it is and it is group consciousness that will create something different – one mind at a time.

Remember in What the Bleep Do We Know? how we saw how we are biochemically addicted or our emotional states? (If you haven’t seen it, I highly recommend it.) The media knows this and is selling us the fear that is addictive. Because it is addictive it keeps us coming back for more and more and more. Ultimately, as we buy into the fear that they are selling and we are addicted to, our negative vibrations then create what we have – a big, negative mess. How can we change it? Taking responsibility for our own minds. To attract abundance we must filter what goes into our mind. The Law of Attraction works. It works in our individual lives and it works in our group conscious mind even bigger. The more we focus, the more we will get.

So my question to you is, WHERE IS YOUR MIND FOCUSED TODAY?

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Law of Attraction – Goethe Knew the Secret

allaboutlifecoaching — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 18:30:06 +0000

Commitment

Begin It Now!

I’ve been dabbling around in personal and spiritual growth for around 35 years – a long time. I’ve learned a lot and seen trends and think, sometimes, that something was gimmicky or flat and then, all of a sudden I awake! It really isn’t just a saying. It’s the truth. Below is a quote from Goethe which I had learned when I started working for a “New Age” sales manager in 1986. At the time I was just attracted to the novelty of spiritual realization and had not really made a commitment to my spiritual growth. The quote:

Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back– Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.

Goethe

All of a sudden the other day part of the quote popped into my head, “Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.” In a nutshell, that is the Law of Attraction. If you can see it or dream it, you will attract it – the power and the magic. The only caveat is you REALLY have to believe it. And for me and most others, it is a gradual process – not an overnight event. The step you must take is to commit. It is the difference between thinking of something and doing. It could take time but the main step is commitment.

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Law of Attraction – My Unique Relationship to It

allaboutlifecoaching — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 15:00:27 +0000

Does Law of Attraction Work Differently for Each of Us?

Several years after the movie “The Secret”, information and writing about the Law of Attraction still abounds everywhere on the internet.The reasons for that are many and here are the ones I can think of:

It’s true. My husband, a scientist, assures me that Law of Attraction is. I’ve also seen What the Bleep (5 times) and read some books on quantum physics. When I’m feeling smart I understand that it is true, too.
Everyone wants more in their life that they like. How do we know we don’t like this thing or that person or a certain situation? Inside is some image we have of what we want and like. So we know if we aren’t getting it.
Everyone wants to know how to get that life and do it on purpose. Sometimes we even have bad feelings and judgments about someone just because it all looks so easy for them.
We all want to feel like the architects of our own lives.

I’ve written about it before. However, I was giving myself a little talk before because I had thoughts like, “You should be on twitter. You should do a better job of SEO on your blog, blah, blah, blah.” Anyway, as my clients know, I practice what I preach so I was busy reminding myself what is true for me and what has worked so well in my life:

I know I attract what I put my attention on. Everyone attracts what they put their attention on – Law of Attraction in a nutshell. However, we are each different. We look different, we have different genetics, etc. Obvious. But it is my opinion and observation that we each attract differently too. Some people attract what they want by going very directly after it – hence the highly successful salesperson you just love and can’t really resist either. That is not me. If I tried to sell you anything, you’d probably want to run the other way. Literally, after much experience (some of it grueling) I have learned I need to wait to be asked.
I know if I don’t get my fear and lack thoughts pretty much out of my head, I will not be attracting what I want. I will be attracting what I’m focusing on.
Since feelings follow thought and I sometimes just quickly feel things, I need to know how to process through those feelings and back to center (positive) as quickly as I can. But denying my feelings doesn’t work. It is just me trying to trick myself. So, in other words, just positive thinking doesn’t work.

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Positive Thinking and the Economy Go Together

allaboutlifecoaching — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 15:00:23 +0000

If I hear “this economy” one more time..!

I know that we all can individually have an impact on this world, whether it is through our negative or positive thinking. So if we focus on our positive thinking and this economy, could we change this negative light that surrounds the world right now? I remember hearing Carolyn Myss talk about the fact that we all like to bond with each other by talking about our wounds. Well, she’s right. Almost everyone I talk to these days wants to say those two words in the title to me with a certain negative emotional oomph. Because I know how Law of Attraction works and because I am experiencing a tremendous amount of prosperity in my life, I’m not buying into this attempt to pull the planet in a negative direction. We have enough of that.

Abraham Hicks says we get more of what we focus on which is another way of talking about Law of Attraction.

Question: So what if you are in a job you’re not crazy about and you also think this isn’t the right time (see title) to try to change jobs? How can you still vibrate at a rate that will attract your desired outcomes and will feel good in your body?

Answer : Use your job experience as a way to grow yourself. Learn how to change your attitude about it and watch yourself go through that process. Find the good/lesson in this change and focus on your positive thinking.

Example from my life: In 2001 my husband and I lost all our money. We were 58 and 66 respectively. In 2003 my then 70-year-old husband got himself hired by Los Angeles Unified School District as a high school Physics teacher. Imagine starting a new career with 100+ inner city teenagers in your classes daily and of completely different background than he ever interacted with much and that’s what his daily work life is like. Imagine also being required to fulfill a 3-year Master’s equivalent program at the same time. Here’s how he’s handled it:

He uses it to grow his organization abilities which he’s ignored throughout his life.
He uses it to watch himself become an amazing teacher.
He uses it to see if how he could offer these kids a faster track into a successful life than their background, education and financial situation would normally allow.
He uses as a way to keep him taking care of his body so he can do it. You should see him doing pull ups, push ups and using Wii Fit.

I could go on and on about him but I think you can see he’s taken full responsibility for his life and his attitude and treats this situation as a way to grow. He’s gained so much by feeling in charge of his life. Rather than moaning about the state of our finances and how unlucky we were, he focused on his positive thinking and it has made all the difference.

How can you make use of your job or career to grow as a human and make a positive thinking contribution to the planet?

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