If you have worked with me, you know that Love Letters are a mainstay of my coaching because I know that to make the changes my clients want to make, they need to heal their past relationships and Love Letters are a free and easy way to do it.
I’ve decided to try recording some real ones that I wrote and my husband wrote during the years. I got a new little camcorder so I can do it. Here it is:
Once again, I love you for sharing and opening yourself to me. Last night I wrote a love letter to my son and to my father…..and, I am beginning to discover some underlying fears and blocks within me. A little more defined than before. Writing has begun to reveal things in me and it’s in some manner helping me to be with myself, with whatever I am, have done, am doing, and start to see that I just Am. All my life I have put myself, unconsciously of course, in a position in all my relationships of proving that I am “good”, because I have this core belief that I am bad, and that I don’t have good feelings for anyone. So I want to be needed and acknowledged….of course, it’s more complex than that, but it’s a way of explaining it to you, and to myself also, what is beginning to surface that I see in my behavior, intentions and why precisely I feel so stuck, and depressed. I don’t know how to choose what’s good for me, I don’t trust myself.
I will continue on this path of writing, uncovering, and of course I need God’s help for this. It’s a scary path. But it’s necessary.
Love,
Savina
February 24, 2010 | Tags: heal the past | trackback
Category: life tools
i liked your movie and the letter.its a good example for follow. Mara thanks
Maia, You’re awesome!
Beautifully written testimony to the power of love letters,
Thanks for sharing with us Savina,
Crystal