![]() |
Sally’s Dilemma and how it led to YOU University

Transformational Effects of Emotion-Based Coaching
Either I’m just the luckiest person in the world or (and I like this idea much better), my plan when I came here to Planet Earth was to have the first part of my life be somewhat hellish and then when it was just exactly the right moment, to run into ways and means to heal from my past. My whole journey led to the development of Emotion-Based Coaching.
The Evolution of Emotion-Based Coaching
A lot of people don’t know this about John Gray (author Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus) but he is a master at understanding emotions – how they work and how to process through them. I was trained by him in this work for years. As a result I became an emotional intelligence “savant“. After years of using this technology and understanding how the process works in me, I can and do train coaches in similar work. Couple that with the universal truths of forgiveness and it’s healing effects; then add on the understanding what quantum physics says tied in with spirituality brings – and you end up with Emotion-Based Coaching in the tradition of John Gray experienced though attendance at YOU University.
Our coaches help clients to heal from their past so they too can continue on their life’s journey towards fulfilling their purpose here on Planet Earth.
Heal the Past, Change Beliefs, Inspired Action
The bigger picture of YOU University and all of my programs is that if you heal the past, you will be able to uncover the incorrect beliefs about yourself and life that you carry as a result of unheard and unprocessed feelings. When you do both parts, you find you are a kind of vessel for inspiration and therefore can do inspired action instead of the same old hamster wheel of behaviors which will keep creating pretty much the same life over and over.
As we give these ideas form, we start to see what our program is really about. One particular word or concept that stands out to me is: IMPROVED COMMUNICATION. Using the tools actually promotes this….first, with ourselves, and second, with the world around us. Do you know how many people are out there with severed communication/relationships because of bad learned skills? Another concept that stands out to me is: OWNING OUR FEELINGS. These are so basic for our integral wellbeing and so many of us have walked around living our lives poorly and not knowing why. This program will help so much and so many.
Savina Cavallo , YOU University Instructor, Guide and Life Coach
YOU University: An Online Program to Uncover Your Real Self is a complete transformation program that comes with your choice of YOU University Coach to give you the tools and knowledge to uncover your authentic self. YOU University Coaches are really instructors, guides and life coaches. They have all gone through very extensive training and transformation themselves in order to qualify and use their talents to help you discover and empower yours.
- YOU University will teach you how to heal your past so you can change your beliefs about who you are.
- YOU University will give you the tools to create the life you want or
- To discover what it is you want and then create that.
How long does it take?
The program takes 6 months with weekly calls and assignments you do online on your own.
What are the requirements?
A willingness to heal the past and to hold a self-responsible attitude while attending YOU University.
How do I get started?
Call one of our YOU University team and get your questions answered and see if this is truly the journey you are ready to make. Contact information listed next to each YOU University team member’s name and information. Click here.
YOU University Groups – The Best Option
My husband and I have been around and involved in personal development for many many years. We met in a workshop given by the then unknown John Gray (author Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus) and Barbara deAngelis in 1982 and have been hooked on personal growth ever since. Our involvement became professional in the mid-’90′s when we founded one of John’s companies, Mars Venus Institute. Our expertise lay in workshops and personal growth.
The setting of our years of involvement with John for 18 years was live weekend workshops with lots of inner child work. Because we stuck around and did the suggested healing work and were involved so intensely in all of it, we experienced amazing growth. I have wanted to give others the experience that we gained but tailored to the internet age.
I am essentially a teacher. Most life coaches are. I knew what I wanted to teach (what worked to help me transform my life) but how could we duplicate in this internet age the group dynamic which increases and speeds up the growth of all members of the group (including the leader’s)?
Well, the miracles of technology have provided the answer. A group of people who get together via a teleconference weekly along with some other of the latest communication technologies, experience that kind of group dynamic and that kind of growth.
So an other option to private attendance through YOU University is being part of a group. Our groups consist of up to 6 people who attend YOU University together under the guidance of a YOU University Instructor. Groups provide a less expensive way to attend YOU University while the growth and support are more rewarding then individual attendance.
YOU University: An Online Program to Learn to Live Your Real Self might take you six months to complete but you will live it and reap its benefits for the rest of your life.
We are living in amazing times. We’ve been watching what appears as the world going to hell in the proverbial hand basket. Everything is changing. Everything is changing rapidly. The environment. The weather. The Internet. How we view the world. More and more of us are realizing that until we take responsibility for our lives, for ourselves and our world, nothing will change for the better. Until we stop viewing ourselves as victims and holding anyone else answerable for the state of our lives, little will change.
In order to take responsibility we have to stop blaming anyone for our problems and the problems of the world. Not blaming someone else does not then mean that it’s your fault – that you are to blame.
No. Not blaming frees our us from thoughts of how bad things are. When we become empowered this way, we then become inspired and know how to make the necessary changes.
The urge to grow and change and find out who they really are is growing in more and more people all the time. That’s why you are reading this page right now. You are answering that call from inside yourself. The call at this sometimes startling time on Planet Earth, is for life to be lived authentically and, therefore, joyfully.
With an absence of emotional baggage and false beliefs about yourself, you are free to be who you were meant to be. You are free to attract people and situations into your life that are a positive match to your rediscovered and shiny YOU.
Click here and you’ll see pages from the actual YOU University program that give you an example of what you will find in there. Take a look at some examples.
YOU University Results We Can Promise
- Tools that work and are useful forever.
- The development of “the observer” which allows the ability to get outside one’s life in order to live more functionally and at choice rather than knee-jerk reaction
- Vastly improved relationships as a result of vastly improved communication.
- A full course on how to process and rid yourself of old unexpressed feelings which are affecting your life, work, relationships and body.
- An understanding, caring, loving, group of trained coaches who use every tool they teach and can tell you specifically how they have benefited. They are forthcoming with their own personal experience and will treat yours like the sacred treasure they will teach you it is.
- An ability to understand, express and fulfill your own needs.
- A deep understanding of the benefits of continued support and a life of learning.
- A larger sense of compassion for yourself and others.
But you must understand from the start that your coach cannot transform your life and give you what you want. What you are looking for is withing the virtual walls of YOU University. We can only show you the way, open the doors to a new life and a new way of seeing yourself and experiencing your life. To actually have the the ongoing transformation you seek, there’s work you must do. We’ll show you what to do, we’ll offer you the best support possible but this is a journey and there is not destination. To change your life takes tremendous commitment, patience, persistence and discipline on your part.
Page last updated on September 23, 2011 at 6:47 am

