Understanding Women in a Relationship
Regardless of what people would have you believe, women can be understood. There are a few things that men need to understand about women in relationships. The following tips will improve your relationship.
- Tip #1 — Women are very up and down.
Women can be like a roller coaster when it comes to emotion, decisions, and every area of their life. (I make very quick decisions, however.)
- Tip #2 — Women need to feel special.
They need to feel they are the most important and special person in your world, You could leave notes, call her on your lunch break and wrap your arms around her as she does the dishes. Compliment her. She’ll love it.
- Tip #3 – Women want to feel secure.
Women want to feel secure in their relationship. If you want to keep a woman, be sure to provide mental and emotional security. She wants you to listen when she needs to talk. . Don’t try to solve their problems because women don’t want you to solve their problems – just listen.
- Tip #4 — Woman like a man who can challenge her mentally.
She likes the stimulation and the challenge. This does not mean you should manipulate or use her or play games with her, but instead, that you should be able to give her the game she wants to play.
Ask him to gain more understanding of a woman in a relationship and your relationship may improve dramatically.
February 25, 2010 | Tags: life coach, Understanding Women in a Relationship | trackback
Category: life tools
Whoa, Maia, do you know WHY women are like this, or men like they are for that matter. Do you remember the book ‘Naked Ape’ by Desmond Morris back in the ’60’s, I think. Our basic animal behavior is all in there and it explains a lot. After I read that book I never again questioned my natural instincts to stay home with my kids, to let them try things on their own in order to learn or to HAPPILY let them go off on their own when that time came. I never tried to play ‘SuperMom’ and work and raise kids because that never works 100%. One or the other suffers and I have seen too many times when it was the children, not the job. We gave up a lot to be able to afford for me to stay home with the kids but we don’t regret one moment of it.
Women do all the drudge work, of course we want to feel special sometimes. We feel vunerable with children so, yes, we want to feel protected, to know someone has our back. Often, hormones account for the ups and downs roller coaster you speak of. And, after a day of child care we LOVE to be intellectually challanged. It reminds us that we are also someone other than primary child raiser.
Can we find men who understand that? Well, that’s another question. I hope my sons are, my husband is a bit old fashioned on some of that stuff but he tries and he has learned a lot. I tried to make him read that book way back when but he was too ‘busy’ with his work to read. On the other hand, we are still together 31 years later so we’ve worked through a whole lot. Love is a decision we have consistently made.
A relationsip has 3 parts: eros, philia and agape… your tips cover every part of a relationship… keep up the good work…